diff --git a/lib/shared/messages/update-relationship-message-spec.js b/lib/shared/messages/update-relationship-message-spec.js
--- a/lib/shared/messages/update-relationship-message-spec.js
+++ b/lib/shared/messages/update-relationship-message-spec.js
@@ -32,7 +32,11 @@
 import type { NotifTexts } from '../../types/notif-types.js';
 import type { RelativeUserInfo } from '../../types/user-types.js';
 import { type EntityText, ET } from '../../utils/entity-text.js';
-import { FUTURE_CODE_VERSION, hasMinCodeVersion } from '../version-utils.js';
+import {
+  NEXT_CODE_VERSION,
+  FUTURE_CODE_VERSION,
+  hasMinCodeVersion,
+} from '../version-utils.js';
 
 type UpdateRelationshipMessageSpec = MessageSpec<
   LegacyUpdateRelationshipMessageData | UpdateRelationshipMessageData,
@@ -276,9 +280,8 @@
       } else if (
         rawMessageInfo.type === messageTypes.UPDATE_RELATIONSHIP &&
         hasMinCodeVersion(platformDetails, {
-          native: FUTURE_CODE_VERSION,
+          native: NEXT_CODE_VERSION,
           web: FUTURE_CODE_VERSION,
-          majorDesktop: FUTURE_CODE_VERSION,
         })
       ) {
         return rawMessageInfo;
diff --git a/lib/shared/unshim-utils.js b/lib/shared/unshim-utils.js
--- a/lib/shared/unshim-utils.js
+++ b/lib/shared/unshim-utils.js
@@ -45,6 +45,7 @@
   messageTypes.REACTION,
   messageTypes.TOGGLE_PIN,
   messageTypes.EDIT_MESSAGE,
+  messageTypes.UPDATE_RELATIONSHIP,
 ]);
 function unshimMessageInfos(
   messageInfos: $ReadOnlyArray<RawMessageInfo>,
diff --git a/native/redux/persist.js b/native/redux/persist.js
--- a/native/redux/persist.js
+++ b/native/redux/persist.js
@@ -1304,6 +1304,8 @@
       },
     };
   },
+  [74]: (state: AppState) =>
+    unshimClientDB(state, [messageTypes.UPDATE_RELATIONSHIP]),
 };
 
 type PersistedReportStore = $Diff<
@@ -1325,7 +1327,7 @@
   storage: AsyncStorage,
   blacklist: persistBlacklist,
   debug: __DEV__,
-  version: 73,
+  version: 74,
   transforms: [
     messageStoreMessagesBlocklistTransform,
     reportStoreTransform,