This parameter only needs to be specified for `FARCASTER_MUTUAL` and `FRIEND`. By making it optional, we can address [this feedback](https://phab.comm.dev/D13443?id=44476#inline-77071) on D13443.
Submitting it as a separate diff as I'm not sure the complexity is worth it, or whether there are other alternatives that reviewers might prefer.
Depends on D13443