[services] Use mutual server listen address

Summary:
Depends on D4595

This is a follow-up for https://phab.comm.dev/D4590#131582

Test Plan: Services build properly (tunnelbroker, blob, backup)

Reviewers: tomek, max

Reviewed By: tomek

Subscribers: ashoat, tomek, adrian, atul, abosh

Differential Revision: https://phab.comm.dev/D4639