Extract logic from message list container to into custom hooks

Summary: Firsr step to share this logic between web and native

Test Plan: Flow, test if creating threads, personal threads, sidebars works as before, if correct messages are displayed.

Reviewers: ashoat, palys-swm

Reviewed By: ashoat

Subscribers: zrebcu411, Adrian, atul, subnub, karol-bisztyga

Differential Revision: https://phabricator.ashoat.com/D757