[desktop] Upgrade node-abi

Summary:
ENG-4537

The version of the node-abi that we had in lockfile didn't have entries for the new electron versions. Upgrading it to this new version should help with the windows CI build failures (but I couldn't reproduce them myself so we will see). I've confirmed that the newest version has entries for electron v25.

I tried 3 ways to update the version:

• yarn upgrade node-abi did nothing, probably because node-abi isn't a direct dependency
• Following instructions from the main electron maintainer run npx uuaw node-abi which updated the lockfile to the version in this diff
• Tried manually removing entries for node-abi from the lockfile and running yarn install which also ended in the lockfile version that's in this diff (matched the previous method)

Test Plan: yarn cleaninstall

Reviewers: atul, ashoat

Reviewed By: ashoat

Subscribers: tomek

Differential Revision: https://phab.comm.dev/D8682