[lib] Replace cloneError() with SendMessageError

Summary: https://linear.app/comm/issue/ENG-9730/native-crashes-when-call-to-identity-fails

Test Plan:
Force the error when sending message:
0. Create DM with some user

1. Comment out error swallowing in peer-list-hooks.js
2. Change identity address to some random address
3. Remove device lists by dispatching an action as described in the issue
4. Try to send a message
5. Verify that the app doesn't crash and user can retry sending the message and you can see the error nicely in the logs

Reviewers: kamil, tomek

Reviewed By: kamil

Subscribers: ashoat

Differential Revision: https://phab.comm.dev/D13862