Revert "[native] fix RetrySend not visible when message fails"

Summary: This reverts commit df101e5f740acb88690353c7412a2e5bc9c5413a.

Test Plan: n/a

Reviewers: ashoat, tomek, atul

Reviewed By: ashoat

Subscribers: ashoat, tomek

Differential Revision: https://phab.comm.dev/D8920