[sqlite] Read Outbound messages with status different than sent

Summary: https://linear.app/comm/issue/ENG-9291/read-outbound-messages-with-status-different-that-sent

Test Plan: Unit tests and check if messages are sent on web and native.

Reviewers: tomek, kamil

Reviewed By: kamil

Subscribers: ashoat

Differential Revision: https://phab.comm.dev/D13908