[lib] Show staff alerts when an operation isn't processed

Summary:
Show an alert for all the cases where an operation can't be immediately processed.

https://linear.app/comm/issue/ENG-9686/some-messages-from-newly-created-chat-missing-on-secondary-device#comment-61c90aa7

Depends on D13724

Test Plan: Checked that an alert is shown after queueing operations on web in dev mode. Deleted the dev check and made sure the alert isn't shown.

Reviewers: kamil, angelika

Reviewed By: kamil

Subscribers: ashoat

Differential Revision: https://phab.comm.dev/D13725