[native] [18/34] ReactNav6: Unify listeners and options props between screens and navigators

Summary:
These are the same types, and the changes in D5409 make it easy to unify them.

Depends on D5410

Test Plan: Flow + ran the app on my phone and played around with it

Reviewers: atul, tomek, bartek

Reviewed By: atul

Subscribers: abosh

Differential Revision: https://phab.comm.dev/D5411