[web][native] update useSendReaction to ThreadInfo instead of threadID only

Summary:
ENG-8975

For DMs, we need more data - members and check if the thread is thick.

Test Plan: Flow, the reaction still works.

Reviewers: tomek, inka

Reviewed By: tomek

Subscribers: ashoat

Differential Revision: https://phab.comm.dev/D13173