[lib] Introduce useThreadInChatList and consume in web/ThreadListProvider

Summary:
Similar to rest of diff, we want to replace usages of threadHasPermission with useThreadHasPermission.

Depends on D11914

Test Plan:
flow and close reading for now.

Logged return value of threadHasPermission and useThreadHasPermission in ThreadListProvider and ensured that they remained the same.

Reviewers: ashoat, ginsu, tomek, varun, will

Reviewed By: ashoat

Differential Revision: https://phab.comm.dev/D11915