[lib/native] move useCanCreateReactionFromMessage hook from native to lib

Summary:
Move useCanCreateReactionFromMessage hook into reaction-utils in lib so that both web and native can use this hook

Depends on D6005

Linear Task: ENG-2464

Test Plan: flow also ran app locally on native and nothing crashes

Reviewers: atul, tomek

Reviewed By: tomek

Subscribers: ashoat, tomek, atul

Differential Revision: https://phab.comm.dev/D6054