[lib] Don't swallow errors in useGetAndUpdateDeviceListsForUsers

Summary:
https://linear.app/comm/issue/ENG-9730/native-crashes-when-call-to-identity-fails

Depends on D13863

Test Plan:
Force the error when sending message:


1. Create DM with some user
2. Change identity address to some random address
3. Remove device lists by dispatching an action as described in the issue
4. Try to send a message
5. Verify that the app doesn't crash and user can retry sending the message and you can see the error nicely in the logs

Reviewers: tomek, kamil

Reviewed By: kamil

Subscribers: ashoat

Differential Revision: https://phab.comm.dev/D13864