[web] cleanup thread notifications modal

Summary:
This diff cleans up the one off styles in the thread notification modal and replaces it with styles of the redesigned modal.

Linear task: https://linear.app/comm/issue/ENG-5943/extendmodify-the-modal-props-api-to-follow-new-modal-designs

Depends on D10282

Test Plan:
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Reviewers: atul, rohan, kamil

Reviewed By: atul

Subscribers: ashoat, tomek

Differential Revision: https://phab.comm.dev/D10315