[identity] hard-code the platform type for the identity docker image
Summary: On M1 Macs, the default image platform is arm64. We should build x86-64 images, though, since our EC2 instances are x86-64.
Test Plan: docker-compose build identity-server builds an x86-64 image on my M1 now
Reviewers: jon, bartek
Reviewed By: jon
Subscribers: ashoat, tomek
Differential Revision: https://phab.comm.dev/D8447