[native] update EnumSettingsOption UI

Summary:
This diff updates the EnumSettingsOption UI to better match the web version of EnumSettingsOption. One big notable change with EnumSettingsOption is that the entire surface is now a touchable rather than just the input. This also matches the behavior we have on web.

Depends on D12653

Test Plan:
Please see the demo videos below of all the places we use this component

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Reviewers: ashoat, inka

Reviewed By: ashoat

Subscribers: ashoat, tomek

Differential Revision: https://phab.comm.dev/D12654