[lib] update processDMOpsActionType to handle composable DM messages

Summary:
ENG-8424.

Previously it was done using sendDMActionTypes.started - but this code will be removed later in the stack.

Depends on D13323

Test Plan: Tested, that only when sending text message outboundP2PMessageIDs is set, and failed messages are persisted.

Reviewers: tomek, inka

Reviewed By: tomek

Subscribers: ashoat

Differential Revision: https://phab.comm.dev/D13324