[web][native] implement DM messages status visible in UI

Summary:
ENG-8423.

Depends on D13158

Test Plan:
Message status visible in UI.

Note: This stack is tested end-to-end according to the process described here.

Reviewers: tomek, inka

Reviewed By: tomek

Subscribers: ashoat

Differential Revision: https://phab.comm.dev/D13159