We need this because we plan to send a different message to users who are added to a thread and to users who already were members, when we add new members.

https://linear.app/comm/issue/ENG-8929/split-add-members-operation

Depends on D13053

Checked two scenarios:
Open two clients with two different users logged in. Send two messages, one with the user included and one without. Check if only one message was delivered.